Open House

Been trying something new. Im now "dating" someone.. by date i mean we go to certain places, hold hands at times, eat out (or in), cuddle a bit, and have lots of sex. but we also get to have sex with other people as well. trying out this "open relationship" thing, or is there such a thing?

im not quite sure im willing to dive into a relationship again. seeing that the "perfect" one just failed. i think im still not over the loss. maybe because i almost gave up a year ago. then went back. then got put down. maybe i shouldnt have made the trip back.

or i could just go back to dating girls again. but that would be just fooling myself, and fooling her. i recently talked to someone, our kind dates girls from time to time to get that "feeling". of being able to hold someone's hand while walking, of kissing and hugging in malls, restaurants, etc.

anyway, i digress. so open.. basically, we can have sex with anyone we want, just make sure to be honest and tell each other. perfect for disaster, right? but we're not a WE yet. and im not willing to give it up just yet... again...

so yeah, we do. we tell each other. no jealousy at my end. nor his (i think). then one day, we were supposed to meet. for some reason, taping got extended so i wasnt available. then he hooked up with former one-time-on-screen-partner.

somehow something doesnt quite feel right..

1. im not used to this
2. im starting to have deeper feelings for him
3. i didnt like that i was replaced right there and then
4. it was a former one time on screen partner
5. all of the above

so even though i was having sex with someone that time too, somehow i think he one-upped me.. and he's enjoying that im "jealous". which makes me wonder, will he do it again so ill get jealous and want an exclusive thing?

so anyway. i dont know.


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