So recently.. i watched, for the first time (yeah, kill me now), that movie everyone was raving about. One More Chance. Now i know why suddenly people are crushing on john lloyd cruz even though he doesnt fit the mold of the hunky guys we all like.
And the break up suddenly hit me again. it kept creeping and sneaking on my thoughts. i get reminded of every little detail we both shared. and how it is going to be fucking hard to find someone like him again. someone who fits my hand like ours did, someone who i can spend hours just trading quips and banter with all night and genuinely laugh at his jokes (and not because im being nice). someone who excitedly tells me about non-romantic stuff (like new songs he heard, or news he just read). and who i have great sex with, everytime.
yes yes, i think im not yet over. ive tried to date, but it seems im not as happy as i was with him. just read his blog recently, knowing he's trying to date and he's still single too. like he's looking for someone he can share things, music, etc with. i was so tempted to comment that he did, and he can have it again. but that would just be fucking so dramatic. of course, ive tried to reach out, getting nothing.
i tried to appear strong, as the characters in the movie did. i dated. i focused on my career. but in the end, during quiet moments, the sadness and longing still lingers.
so for the time being, im taking each day as it goes. maybe go on dates (plus/minus the sex). to try to forget, to try to get distracted, or ultimately, to find a better him.
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There's a fine, fine line between a lover and a friend;
There's a fine, fine line between reality and pretend;
And you never know 'til you reach the top if it was worth the uphill climb.
There's a fine, fine line between love
And a waste of time.
There's a fine, fine line between a fairy tale and a lie;
And there's a fine, fine line between "You're wonderful" and "Goodbye."
I guess if someone doesn't love you back it isn't such a crime,
But there's a fine, fine line between love
And a waste of your time.
And I don't have the time to waste on you anymore.
I don't think that you even know what you're looking for.
For my own sanity, I've got to close the door
And walk away...
Oh...
There's a fine, fine line between together and not
And there's a fine, fine line between what you wanted and what you got.
You gotta go after the things you want while you're still in your prime...
There's a fine, fine line between love
And a waste of time.
